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Johnny Sexton: 'I offered my hand. He told me to f*** off'

Man of the Match Jonathan Sexton of Leinster leaves the field following his side's victory during the Guinness PRO12 Round 6 match between Leinster and Munster at the Aviva Stadium in Lansdowne Road, Dublin. (Photo By Seb Daly/Sportsfile via Getty Images)

Johnny Sexton has opened up about his heated relationship with Ronan O’Gara, recalling their infamous on-field clash in 2009.

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Sexton has written about the drama in his new book – Obsessed: The Autobiography of Johnny Sexton. Extracts from the book have been published in this weekend’s Sunday Times.

The tensions between the two Ireland fly-halves escalated prior to that day at a Leinster-Munster match, where a scuffle led to a verbal exchange. O’Gara called Sexton “useless” and “a nobody,” fueling their rivalry.

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“The real flare-up started when I went to clear out Lifeimi Mafi after he’d tip-tackled Chris Whitaker. I caught him above the eye with a stud by accident and he retaliated. A few fists were thrown.

“Paul O’Connell was quick on the scene, asking Mafi who’d caused the gash above his eye. Suddenly I have Paulie pointing the finger at me and giving me a mouthful. A scary sight. I squared my shoulders at him, but from a safe distance.

“With Paulie there for protection, O’Gara was also in my face: “What the f*** are you doing?” I responded by shaping to punch him, just drawing my fist back. When he winced, I called him a coward. That really set him off.

“Call me a coward? You’re nothing! You’re useless! A nobody!”

“It soon broke up, but I stored his words in a place where they could fester.”

Later that season, Sexton confronted O’Gara again after Leinster’s win over Munster in the Heineken Cup semi-final in Croke Park.

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“I was delighted with how I played at Croker that day, but my performance is remembered for two things only: that first penalty kick and the famous flashpoint, in the left corner just after Darce’s try, when I got into O’Gara’s face.

“I’ve spent a lot of time apologising for that moment over the years — how I regretted being disrespectful towards him, how I may have caused embarrassment to my Munster relations. I remember that I received a letter from a Munster fan, telling me how unsportsmanlike I’d been.

“At this stage, I’m actually glad that I did it. I was just being me.

“I know it wasn’t setting a great example to the thousands of kids who were watching. I’m not sure how I’d feel about my kids seeing it, or how I’ll explain it to them when the time comes. But stuff like this happens in competitive sport. And was it really that bad? His words had played over and over in my head for weeks building up to this game. “You’re useless, a nobody.”

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“I went over to O’Gara on the final whistle and offered my hand. He told me to f*** off. He had the hump, big-time. Maybe it had something to do with the fact that Brian [O’Driscoll] had intercepted him for our final try.”

While they eventually formed a friendship as coach and player at Racing 92, the rivalry has been reignited following another spat during the 2023 Champions Cup final in the Aviva Stadium, where the pair once again exchanged words.

Obsessed, The Autobiography by Johnny Sexton is published by Penguin, Sandycove on the 10th Oct at £20/€25. Available to pre-order now

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BV 50 days ago

The Archangel Johnny..... always someone else's fault...

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Forward pass 51 days ago

I feel he is just a poor misunderstood little boy. 😁😁

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MattJH 51 days ago

How To Be Friendless and Lose Crunch Games: The Johnny Sexton Story.

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Teddy 51 days ago

How many wins against the boks between them?


Must be 8? At least.

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jb 51 days ago

How many wins for the bokke against the All Blacks in the last decade? You see how silly your remark is? Quite pointless mate.

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AV 51 days ago

You get those ... a low-life who coincidentally played very good rugby

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Bull Shark 51 days ago

So basically the whole book is about everyone thinking he’s a Kant and unsportsmanlike?


Who advises this guy? This book seems like a totally bad idea.

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jb 51 days ago

Nope. Only bokke think other players are kant's and then lie about it when the heat is on.

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DP 51 days ago

On the contrary…. 🫢

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Ed the Duck 51 days ago

“I’ve spent a lot of time apologising for that moment…I’m actually glad that I did it. I was just being me.”


So in summary; sorry, not sorry.


Total cnut.

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DP 51 days ago

What a team mate!

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RedWarrior 51 days ago

"Total cnut"


No need to sign it young man!

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Carlos 51 days ago

Two winging guys who couldn't get their teams past a QF in the RWC, fighting with handbags...

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Teddy 51 days ago

Chief, when your team has just been shat on, to the tune of 40+ PTS, its best to sit this one out.

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Terry24 51 days ago

I had been led to believe that Argentinians had honour a cutting sense of humour. They still do, but what happenned to you?

NZ and SA are about to dump you in the Rugby Championship. A test series in non competition years might be on the cards between Ireland and Argentina. Ireland and Argentina are rivals but there is respect. Be careful who you insult. You may need us at some stage.

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BP 51 days ago

No real surprise here -all they good for is choking and whining!

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JW 3 hours ago
'Passionate reunion of France and New Zealand shows Fabien Galthie is wrong to rest his stars'

Ok, managed to read the full article..

... New Zealand’s has only 14 and the professional season is all over within four months. In France, club governance is the responsibility of an independent organisation [the Ligue Nationale de Rugby or LNR] which is entirely separate from the host union [the Fédération Française de Rugby or FFR]. Down south New Zealand Rugby runs the provincial and the national game.

That is the National Provincial Championship, a competition of 14 representative union based teams run through the SH international window and only semi professional (paid only during it's running). It is run by NZR and goes for two and a half months.


Super Rugby is a competition involving 12 fully professional teams, of which 5 are of New Zealand eligibility, and another joint administered team of Pacific Island eligibility, with NZR involvement. It was a 18 week competition this year, so involved (randomly chosen I believe) extra return fixtures (2 or 3 home and away derbys), and is run by Super Rugby Pacific's own independent Board (or organisation). The teams may or may not be independently run and owned (note, this does not necessarily mean what you think of as 'privately owned').


LNR was setup by FFR and the French Government to administer the professional game in France. In New Zealand, the Players Association and Super Rugby franchises agreed last month to not setup their own governance structure for professional rugby and re-aligned themselves with New Zealand Rugby. They had been proposing to do something like the English model, I'm not sure how closely that would have been aligned to the French system but it did not sound like it would have French union executive representation on it like the LNR does.

In the shaky isles the professional pyramid tapers to a point with the almighty All Blacks. In France the feeling for country is no more important than the sense of fierce local identity spawned at myriad clubs concentrated in the southwest. Progress is achieved by a nonchalant shrug and the wide sweep of nuanced negotiation, rather than driven from the top by a single intense focus.

Yes, it is pretty much a 'representative' selection system at every level, but these union's are having to fight for their existence against the regime that is NZR, and are currently going through their own battle, just as France has recently as I understand it. A single focus, ala the French game, might not be the best outcome for rugby as a whole.


For pure theatre, it is a wonderful article so far. I prefer 'Ntamack New Zealand 2022' though.

The young Crusader still struggles to solve the puzzle posed by the shorter, more compact tight-heads at this level but he had no problem at all with Colombe.

It was interesting to listen to Manny during an interview on Maul or Nothing, he citied that after a bit of banter with the All Black's he no longer wanted one of their jersey's after the game. One of those talks was an eye to eye chat with Tamaiti Williams, there appear to be nothing between the lock and prop, just a lot of give and take. I thought TW angled in and caused Taylor to pop a few times, and that NZ were lucky to be rewarded.

f you have a forward of 6ft 8ins and 145kg, and he is not at all disturbed by a dysfunctional set-piece, you are in business.

He talked about the clarity of the leadership that helped alleviate any need for anxiety at the predicaments unfolding before him. The same cannot be said for New Zealand when they had 5 minutes left to retrieve a match winning penalty, I don't believe. Did the team in black have much of a plan at any point in the game? I don't really call an autonomous 10 vehicle they had as innovative. I think Razor needs to go back to the dealer and get a new game driver on that one.

Vaa’i is no match for his power on the ground. Even in reverse, Meafou is like a tractor motoring backwards in low gear, trampling all in its path.

Vaa'i actually stops him in his tracks. He gets what could have been a dubious 'tackle' on him?

A high-level offence will often try to identify and exploit big forwards who can be slower to reload, and therefore vulnerable to two quick plays run at them consecutively.

Yes he was just standing on his haunches wasn't he? He mentioned that in the interview, saying that not only did you just get up and back into the line to find the opposition was already set and running at you they also hit harder than anything he'd experienced in the Top 14. He was referring to New Zealands ultra-physical, burst-based Super style of course, which he was more than a bit surprised about. I don't blame him for being caught out.


He still sent the obstruction back to the repair yard though!

What wouldn’t the New Zealand rugby public give to see the likes of Mauvaka and Meafou up front..

Common now Nick, don't go there! Meafou showed his Toulouse shirt and promptly got his citizenship, New Zealand can't have him, surely?!?


As I have said before with these subjects, really enjoy your enthusiasm for their contribution on the field and I'd love to see more of their shapes running out for Vern Cotter and the like styled teams.

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